People always leave

I will go with the statement where Calli said that it is sadder when people intentionally leave those that love them, whether it is physically or emotionally. I agree, I think it is harder when someone makes that choice. But then again there is always the chance that you can see them again, when someone dies, the only time you get to see them is through memories or pictures.
Back to the point. Its like family members that have an argument and dont talk, for years on end, if ever again, or when you break up, or move on from the person that you first loved. Everyone always says the first love is the hardest to get over. I think this is mostly because it is the first experience of getting over intense emotional feelings for someone, but then again, one cannot understand the hurt until they experience it which makes it hard to prepare a friend or a sibling or a family member for that first heartbreak.
I'll stop here, and let Calli take over, put her spin on it!

Social Death

I am a very lucky person, in that very few people I care about have passed away. Which I feel gives me the distance to approach the questions regarding why we talk about people passing away like we talk about people passing gas. In hushed tones, with a distinctly regretful timbre and in a manner that shows you are aknowledging the event yet still in a hurry to change the subject, even though you know nobody is really going to ignore it.
Or at least that tends to be my knee-jerk reaction approach to it.
I'm not sure why people are so sad about death. Or at least for such long periods of time. For me, the sadder thing has always been when people choose to leave others people. Not to say that death is not sad. But [barring instances of suicide] for the most part it seems whomever we mourn died of uncontrollable circumstances, and unless you believe they were horrible people going to hell or that this life on this planet is all there is, why are people so sad? I'm not heartless, I too, indulge myself in mourning when appropriate, and many times, when not. I'm not meaning to criticise, simply questioning.
I think I may be doing a bad job of explaining the position from which I aspire to inqure from, so i'm going to break here and see how Jessie decides to spin or abandon this.

First Idea

I am going to start a subject, and maybe Calli will follow up or write about something different. Basically you get to read our thoughts about things and how we feed off of each other.
Death. It has been such a part of my life since September of last year, and has brought itself to the forefront once again today. I have lost roughly 8 family members/friends in the past 14 months and they have all been hard in their own ways. The hardest have been my Grandma and now my neighbor George.
So my thoughts are that yes, death happens, yes it sucks, but I should live for those who have passed. I live to carry on the important things that I have gotten from these various people.
Anyway, you live, you learn, and you (or at least I) try to carry things on.
And thats where I'll stop.

Say goodnight and Go

I'm not sure what I had hoped tpo get out of this when I approached jessie with this idea. I thought it could be cool I guess, we feed off of eachother and eachother's writing so much and so well. So I thought that if there were both of our writing together then other people could enjoy this dynamic as well. So I guess this is a random entry just to let my computer know that this hasn't died just yet.

Introduction

My friend and I are experimenting with a new way of blogging. Well, new to us anyway, we are tag-teaming this blog. So let me introduce myself. I am Jessie, or the JC part of this blog, (my co-writer is Calli and the CS of the blog). I started blogging back around Christmas of 2005, Calli started reading my blog this March when I went to Israel and started her own. We tend to feed off of each other and so we decided that a blog that we did together would be fun and interesting. Hope you enjoy!